Tag: #smile

COMMUNICATION

COMMUNICATION

Now a days when everywhere there is technological era , still sometimes we are unable to communicate. Yes, its true. People to whom we want to communicate the most , we could’nt because of the distance between us and we are unable to express our feelings to them. Lack of communication leads to many misconceptions or assumptions which can often lead to wrong perception.

Today I would like to communicate my point of view about;

#positivity

#and people who try to make others happy

POSITIVITY:

General criticism about people who wrote about positivity is that that they are also facing same negativity in life & so on. Yes, we do experience everything like any other person in the world. We are also part of this world. There is nothing new or special for us. Things happened the same way but the only difference is how we look on that incident or event. Are we able to see its positive or negative side. Both exists everytime. But two people will see it differently. One will see its positive side while other will see its negative side. So, positivity does’nt mean that everytime everything  is so perfect. Its way of looking at different incidents or events in a positive way.

PEOPLE WHO TRY TO MAKE OTHERS HAPPY:

Another concept that the most injured heart try to make everyone happy. Thats 100% true but these are the people who even after bearing so much negativity from people around them , are still able to give something positive to the society. Thats require real courage and its their strength. Otherwise we can find so many people complaining about so many things which is of no use to society.

I am sure there are many untold stories in everyone’s life which we can’nt share publically but they do exist. Why we can’nt share is because of the people in that story and their privacy. But infact those people are the one who has strong impact on your life. Who made you what you are now. So in a way we’ve to be thankful to them as well.

To conclude I would say,

“DO’NT BE JUDGEMENTAL ABOUT OTHERS, ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU DO’NT KNOW ABOUT THEIR PAST AND LIFE IS SO BEAUTIFUL SO DO’NT FORGET TO SMILE.”

Keep Smiling 😊,

Noor Saeed.

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SADNESS

SADNESS

When we become sad?  When we desire something and its not fulfilled. When we want something badly, either things or relations and are not able to get them. “Our own created desires” make us unhappy/sad. Once we drop those desires, we’ll be happy again. Now question is “should we be able to drop our desires”. The answer lies within ourselves. We have to decide that we want to live our life in depression or we deserve better life.

Life is a continuous struggle from birth till death. Everyone is struggling in their own life only the scenario is different. For a better life we have to be a clear headed person that what we want in our life. Once goal set then go for it. Work really hard because only hardwork with  disciplined life pays off. While walking on your path, you’ll do alot of mistakes. Its ok. At least you are trying and moving towards your goal. Do’nt be sad /depressed on your mistakes/failures as they are key to success. Its not your fault. You are in a learning process . what you gain is an experience and there is no substitute for experience.

We also become sad/depressed , if we are missing someone we loved and now they are not in our life. I lost my young brother last october. That pain I found the most unbearable pain in life. But now I am happy for him because Allah/God has given us option to pray for our loved ones and that can increase their ranks in jannah and also their sins will be forgiven. If I look around, almost everyone praying for him. All close relations and especially my mom and dad. That thing gives me peace. I am happy for him because so many hands raising to pray for him. We all have to go one day but he has alot of people praying for him. May Allah forgives all his sins and gives him place in jannah.

There are people who love someone but they are not getting love in return. Remember one thing that we can’nt force anyone to love us and stay in our life. Think of the life in which the person you want ,in your life , is not at all interested in you. How miserable life that would be, even if you have them . Let them be free. If you want to have healthy relation then try to win others heart and soul and that you can do if you love someone unconditionally. The only way love can last for a life time is if its unconditional because,

“Love is unconditional, relationships are not”.   (Grant Gudmundson)

If you want to overcome your sadness then first of all you have to accept it that you are sad . Try to find out the reason of sadness and share it with people to whom you can trust. Its ok to be sad sometimes as its natural. Important thing  is to come out of it as soon as possible. Meditation and listening music also help to come out of sadness for some people. But tell you what…….

“Smile has strongest positive effect on our mood. So if you are feeling sad, try to smile and…

Keep Smiling:),

Noor Saeed.

Smile☺…

Smile☺…

I am a career coach and trainer for lean management, sales and marketing, human resource management and business management. I am also a business woman working in Dubai.To start with I want everyone who comes to my page to smile ☺ first . You guys owe me one smile daily.
One smile can do alot of wonders like:

  • Boost immune system 💪
  • Reduce stress and anger 🙍
  • Reduce blood pressure
  • Contagious☺😂
  • Relax the body 💆
  • And above all you look younger 👨👩

So….I want all you guys to be healthy and if one smile can serve the purpose then why not smile☺ . From today onwards make sure that someone is there to whom you owe one smile daily.you’ll be getting alot of stuff on positivity from my side soon.

Keep Smiling ☺……..
Noor Saeed