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SADNESS

SADNESS

When we become sad?  When we desire something and its not fulfilled. When we want something badly, either things or relations and are not able to get them. “Our own created desires” make us unhappy/sad. Once we drop those desires, we’ll be happy again. Now question is “should we be able to drop our desires”. The answer lies within ourselves. We have to decide that we want to live our life in depression or we deserve better life.

Life is a continuous struggle from birth till death. Everyone is struggling in their own life only the scenario is different. For a better life we have to be a clear headed person that what we want in our life. Once goal set then go for it. Work really hard because only hardwork with  disciplined life pays off. While walking on your path, you’ll do alot of mistakes. Its ok. At least you are trying and moving towards your goal. Do’nt be sad /depressed on your mistakes/failures as they are key to success. Its not your fault. You are in a learning process . what you gain is an experience and there is no substitute for experience.

We also become sad/depressed , if we are missing someone we loved and now they are not in our life. I lost my young brother last october. That pain I found the most unbearable pain in life. But now I am happy for him because Allah/God has given us option to pray for our loved ones and that can increase their ranks in jannah and also their sins will be forgiven. If I look around, almost everyone praying for him. All close relations and especially my mom and dad. That thing gives me peace. I am happy for him because so many hands raising to pray for him. We all have to go one day but he has alot of people praying for him. May Allah forgives all his sins and gives him place in jannah.

There are people who love someone but they are not getting love in return. Remember one thing that we can’nt force anyone to love us and stay in our life. Think of the life in which the person you want ,in your life , is not at all interested in you. How miserable life that would be, even if you have them . Let them be free. If you want to have healthy relation then try to win others heart and soul and that you can do if you love someone unconditionally. The only way love can last for a life time is if its unconditional because,

“Love is unconditional, relationships are not”.   (Grant Gudmundson)

If you want to overcome your sadness then first of all you have to accept it that you are sad . Try to find out the reason of sadness and share it with people to whom you can trust. Its ok to be sad sometimes as its natural. Important thing  is to come out of it as soon as possible. Meditation and listening music also help to come out of sadness for some people. But tell you what…….

“Smile has strongest positive effect on our mood. So if you are feeling sad, try to smile and…

Keep Smiling:),

Noor Saeed.

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Be yourself

Be yourself

Each one of us is unique. We all are different people with different qualities.We do’nt have to be like others.Be confident about yourself that you are one in the world. We do’nt need anyone’s certificate to tell us about who we are? Your uniqueness makes you different from others.So be unique and be yourself.

First of all, parents need to train their child in such a way from childhood that they never feel complexed or have low confidence level. You know that my father told me all the time that the way you are ,you are the best person. You do’nt have to change yourself for anyone but yes be kind to others. That confidence which he has in me gave me alot of strength to move on in life. So I would request parents to train your child in such a way that they never feel any complex or have low confidence.

But reality is that alot of people (massess) are suffering from complex & low level of confidence. For all those my question is why? The rich people are eating same food(fruits,vegetables,meat)  which you are eating ,given to us by Allah (God). They can’nt have gold or diamonds in their meals. They are wearing clothes like you are wearing .Yes ,you can say brand difference- so what? Rich people are also human beings but you know the difference is that they worked really hard to reach that place. Now what they are, its the result of their hardwork and continous effort of improving themselves. So, instead of sitting and seeing them being successful, try to find out that what you want from your life? Do you know your own qualities that what are your interests?Find it out. Some of you will be good artist, marketing personnel, good in IT field etc. What you are good at? Once you find out then work only in that direction . Like this you’ll love your work and one day gonna be a successful person. 

We’ve to stop looking towards other persons like what they are doing? Important is what you wanna do. Focus on that more. Sit today and question yourself what you want from life. I am sure most of us do’nt know but once we know that then no one can stop us from becoming a successful person.

Be a clear headed person who knows what he/she wants from his/her life. You and only you can change your life. Its never too late. Start today as tomorrow never comes in life and there are no shortcuts to success.Only thing that makes the difference is hardwork.

Be confident and Be Yourself.

Keep Smilingâ˜ș

Noor Saeed