Feeling is an emotional state & always very important in each individual’s life. Every act of a person involve feelings in it. We have different feelings when we are happy, sad, hurt, lonely, positive, negative, enthusiastic, being brave, coward, honest etc. Whatever state we are in, we should give importance to our feelings & listen to our heart at that time. We get hurt only if we allow others to do so. Actually, we have to respect our feelings as they are also part of us / our assests. We can make our good feeling our good memories so that every time we remember them , they leave smile on our face.
our extreme feelings are ;
# When we are sad, we need one shoulder to lay our head on & open our heart .
# When we are happy , we need closest person to share our happiness with .
# When we are in pain (emotional state) , we need one magical hug to cure it.
# When we are excited , we need a warm hug.
# When you miss someone, need to give them a call or send them message that you are missing them.
# When we are angry / frustrated, we need one soft touch which shows warmth feeling for us.
# Above all , best feeling is to have Allah / God in our life all the time with whom we can share anything at any time as from there we always get peace & satisfaction for our heart and mind. For me, “ITS THE BEST FEELING EVER.”
HOW TO DEAL WITH DIFFERENT FEELINGS:
I have listened / read a lot of stories of different people who get hurt in love. Feeling of love is always very pure irrespective of which relation you are in love with. Love itself is beautiful feeling. If we fall in love with someone or someone made us fall in love with them and then they don’t stand with you for any reason, never get hurt rather respect your those pure feeling which you have for someone. Those honest feelings belongs to you only. No need to share it with anyone or feel ashamed of it. At the end, we learn what does love mean & how it feels to be in love. We can understand the feelings of people around us who love us in true manner. We can feel how they feel about us.
Extreme situations whether good or bad also let us know about the real / true people who are standing with us without any conditions. Respect their feelings who are always there for you no matter what and who can stand in front of whole world for you. Important is to be happy in our life as we deserve all happiness in our life. Don’t let anyone take your peace of mind. Forgive everyone and be patient on what others did to you. But being patient doesn’t mean we don’t live a happy life. Life is a gift of Allah /God and we should be thankful for everything in our life. Remember ! If someone loves you then he /she will have courage to stand with you and if they cannot for any reason ,just move on and always respect your feelings.
Things happened in life. As a husband and wife ,you can tackle it very well if you take each other as friends and not only typical husband and wife. You can be a good friend and good friends help each other in every situation even after knowing our negative and positive points .
Feelings are something that cannot be controlled. Of course, after having certain feelings, we use our mind to act accordingly. Important is to have always positive feelings and see positive outcomes of every situation. If we are in love, we’ll understand how it is to be in love. If someone hates us , degrades us, try to influence us or whatever , we’ll learn how to tackle it. May be, as a human being, it’s painful for us in the start but once we go through it then next time we’ll be experienced that how to tackle those situations in a better way and will stay on top of all those things.
We can share our pure feelings with others. With a person who is not judgemental , trustworthy and understand us who we are / the way we are as we all do need catharsis in our life. With whom after sharing we feel relaxed and in whose company we feel comfortable. That trustworthy person could be your father, mother, brother, sister, husband , wife etc.
There are people who fall in love but cannot accept it and hide their feelings. They don’t understand their feelings. Others , who try to make others love them but they themselves fall in love. No ! Am I wrong ? Then why are you reading this at a moment. Well! In any case this gonna help you how to tackle your feelings ☺.Be open up about your feelings guys.
To conclude, I would say,
“MAKE GOOD FEELINGS YOUR GOOD MEMORIES AND ALWAYS RESPECT THEM”.
KEEP SMILING ☺,