Each one of us is unique. We all are different people with different qualities.We do’nt have to be like others.Be confident about yourself that you are one in the world. We do’nt need anyone’s certificate to tell us about who we are? Your uniqueness makes you different from others.So be unique and be yourself.
First of all, parents need to train their child in such a way from childhood that they never feel complexed or have low confidence level. You know that my father told me all the time that the way you are ,you are the best person. You do’nt have to change yourself for anyone but yes be kind to others. That confidence which he has in me gave me alot of strength to move on in life. So I would request parents to train your child in such a way that they never feel any complex or have low confidence.
But reality is that alot of people (massess) are suffering from complex & low level of confidence. For all those my question is why? The rich people are eating same food(fruits,vegetables,meat) which you are eating ,given to us by Allah (God). They can’nt have gold or diamonds in their meals. They are wearing clothes like you are wearing .Yes ,you can say brand difference- so what? Rich people are also human beings but you know the difference is that they worked really hard to reach that place. Now what they are, its the result of their hardwork and continous effort of improving themselves. So, instead of sitting and seeing them being successful, try to find out that what you want from your life? Do you know your own qualities that what are your interests?Find it out. Some of you will be good artist, marketing personnel, good in IT field etc. What you are good at? Once you find out then work only in that direction . Like this you’ll love your work and one day gonna be a successful person.
We’ve to stop looking towards other persons like what they are doing? Important is what you wanna do. Focus on that more. Sit today and question yourself what you want from life. I am sure most of us do’nt know but once we know that then no one can stop us from becoming a successful person.
Be a clear headed person who knows what he/she wants from his/her life. You and only you can change your life. Its never too late. Start today as tomorrow never comes in life and there are no shortcuts to success.Only thing that makes the difference is hardwork.
Be confident and Be Yourself.